was she just wasting my time from the begining?
So I met this girl through a dating app, I wasn't sure what to expect i suppose wishful thinking to expect to find anything serious out of it. We seemed to have a lot in common from movies to music, etc. The issue I have with it was that she had no follow up, I'd try to say "hey lets go grab some food, coffee, go to a park" etc just something to go out and get to know someone. She would say she was up for it but never really follow through. We did hang out a few times that wasn't too bad but I felt I had to put forth all the effort. Yesturday I asked her what she was looking for and she said she finds me very interesting, loves that i have so many different hobbies but she isn't looking for a boyfriend but if something happens it happens but she still wants to continue to hang out with me. So does that mean she just wants to string me along then?? I definitely am not trying to just be friends at my age, i mean if the whole reason we're talking is to date and get to know each other and that isn't happening I feel like she's just b/s'ing me quite a bit. Any opinions?