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was she just wasting my time from the begining?

So I met this girl through a dating app, I wasn't sure what to expect i suppose wishful thinking to expect to find anything serious out of it. We seemed to have a lot in common from movies to music, etc. The issue I have with it was that she had no follow up, I'd try to say "hey lets go grab some food, coffee, go to a park" etc just something to go out and get to know someone. She would say she was up for it but never really follow through. We did hang out a few times that wasn't too bad but I felt I had to put forth all the effort. Yesturday I asked her what she was looking for and she said she finds me very interesting, loves that i have so many different hobbies but she isn't looking for a boyfriend but if something happens it happens but she still wants to continue to hang out with me. So does that mean she just wants to string me along then?? I definitely am not trying to just be friends at my age, i mean if the whole reason we're talking is to date and get to know each other and that isn't happening I feel like she's just b/s'ing me quite a bit. Any opinions?

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I don't think she's stringing you along. She was honest with you when asked. She obviously likes you though. Since you're looking for a girlfriend you should tell her you don't think things are going to work out between the two of you since you both want different things from a relationship.

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