met this girl my age on vacation. We've been very flirty torwards eachother. She makes jokes w/ me, always looking at me, as i do the same to her. We went to dinner yesterday. Dinner tonight. We came back to my hotel tonight, sitting by the pool, having a normal conversation and she says "oh, i never really liked lacrosse after my boyfriend broke his ribs a couple weeks ago"...... Like what. Did she just use me? Im so upset.
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"Use you"? What were you fantasizing would happen after vacation? That the two of you were going to get married? You both enjoyed the last couple of days more than you would have if you'd not hung out and flirted and shared company. No one was robbed or cheated or lied to. It was a better vacation for her company. Her vacation was better for yours. If you want to go back into the pool and try to meet another gal, there's nothing to stop you.
Leafsfan29-Embrace the drought!
She clearly didn't see it as being flirty.