Is there someone knowledgeable about back pain on here who can help me?
I think it was a few years ago that I hurt my back lifting up a large heavy bucket of water. It felt better for a while and then it would start hurting when I would bend down to do yard work and stuff. It would feel numb. Then last year or so the pain has started getting worse. It hurts most of the time anymore. I tried to do exercises and stretches but it makes the pain worse. Should I keep doing them? Will they eventually help my back or is it doing more damage to it? I haven't told my doctor about it because my mom has had back pain a long time and hasn't done anything about it. So I don't know if it is worth discussing with a doctor. Is there something a doctor could do or should I just try to get used to it? I am worried as the pain gets worse my parents will find out. I don't want them to know because they depend on me for things and they might think I can't help them if they knew. I was planting some flowers for them the other day and was miserable. I kept praying for help getting through the pain to finish. What do you suggest I do?