Fwb or boyfriend broke it off and then want to get back together?

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Ok this guy I have been seeing for over 2 years don't know what he wants to do. One minute he acts good texting and calling. But now he stop texting and I been asking him over and over do he still want this but no response, and then this morning I text him and he text me back speaking. So after that he asked could I come to see him and after I were about to come there he cancels on me once again. So I gotten upset cause it was early in the morning I was trying to sleep so I was pissed that he awaken me and didn't want to see me. He then text and said he want to end it I was mad but also felt relieved too cause I was tired of this in a way. But after like 2 hours later he calls and tell me I'm doing this and that and I may have a guy over and I asked why should he care after all he just broke it off with me. He said because he love me and don't want to leave me alone. Yes I love him too and I believe it's more than just a fwb now but I don't know what he wants at times. He jealous and crazy sometimes and I feel like I can't take his mess. What to do in this situation

Anonymous · Answer

block his number, forget about him. he is just going to keep doing this and you don't need to take this from him.

W · Answer

You shouldn't really get emotionally involved with your FWB.

It sounds like you two are playing the "game of love" so you can keep the fantasy alive, but when it boils down to it, you two are nothing more than FWBs.

Every FWB relationship has to have that fantasy element. If you to want to maintain the fantasy that you care about each other, and that is what works, then so be it.

But if you two are going to take it to the next level, then you no longer are FWBs. You are in a serious relationship, and that needs to be clarified between you two, and the relationship needs to be re-defined.

My suggestion. Get better at communicating what it is you want. If you want more than a FWB, then demand it. Be honest with your partner and don't accept anything less.

And time will tell if that is what he wants too. Regardless of what he says to you now.

This is why FWB relationships are unhealthy. Is because they encourage people to engage in a "fantasy" relationship and live in denial about what the relationship really is.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess you want to stay with someone who is crazy and lacks any adult ability to communicate, that's up to you.

Fwb or boyfriend broke it off and then want to get back together?

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