I keep getting bullied...what do i do?

Ok so in the beginning I'm an 18 year old girl. As u can all see from the question I'm a stupid easy target...yes that's right! I keep getting mistreated by my family and there is nothing i can do about it, I'm too weak to defend myself and i don't even have the right words to stand up for myself. For example my brother has been bullying me since morning till now evening. He's insulting, disrespecting, calling me names, cussing, and using a harsh tone speaking with me. In general he's disrespectful ugly person from the inside but anyone can bully me cuz I'm a weak stupid target. Even back in 8th grade i got slapped in my first week of school. I don't know what to do or say. Mostly i stay expressionless and quiet in such situations cause i got no idea what can be done.

Please help me I'm tired of crying to sleep at night because someone hurt me

?2018-09-24T20:41:36Z

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If anyone, including your brother, talks to you in that way you have every right to stand up for yourself. You don’t have to figure out the perfect thing to say, as long as he gets the point that he needs to stop. You’re an adult and your well being matters to the people around you and that should be respected. However. I think you need to set boundaries with others. You can find some helpful techniques online on how to do this. You shouldn’t have to feel so upset because try to figure out why your brother and family act this way. There may be something going on in their lives or there may be insecurities. You CAN defend yourself, and you have to at least sit down and have serious conversation with your family and they should hear you out. Otherwise this will most likely continue.

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Magmud2018-09-28T06:59:53Z

best thing to do is shoot up your school

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?2018-09-28T06:57:41Z

**** em up

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Anonymous2018-09-24T21:32:38Z

Bullies are cowards plain and simple. You need help in getting some self esteem and figuring out why you allow people to treat you so poorly. There are free clinics to deal with mental health issues. Or start with your medical doctor and ask for a recommendation of where to get help. This is probably not something you can solve without help. This is slowly destroying you. Please get strong and get some needed help.

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meredith2018-09-24T20:45:37Z

For now just go your own way. If they wont let you. Tell someone. If that doesn't help. Learn how to fight.

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