I keep getting bullied...what do i do?

If anyone, including your brother, talks to you in that way you have every right to stand up for yourself. You don’t have to figure out the perfect thing to say, as long as he gets the point that he needs to stop. You’re an adult and your well being matters to the people around you and that should be respected. However. I think you need to set boundaries with others. You can find some helpful techniques online on how to do this. You shouldn’t have to feel so upset because try to figure out why your brother and family act this way. There may be something going on in their lives or there may be insecurities. You CAN defend yourself, and you have to at least sit down and have serious conversation with your family and they should hear you out. Otherwise this will most likely continue.

best thing to do is shoot up your school

**** em up

Bullies are cowards plain and simple. You need help in getting some self esteem and figuring out why you allow people to treat you so poorly. There are free clinics to deal with mental health issues. Or start with your medical doctor and ask for a recommendation of where to get help. This is probably not something you can solve without help. This is slowly destroying you. Please get strong and get some needed help.

For now just go your own way. If they wont let you. Tell someone. If that doesn't help. Learn how to fight.

This has been going on for over three years or more. You are 18 years old. Finish high school and get into therapy. You are right. You need help. But asking the same question on Yahoo Answers for over three years is not the right way to go about getting help. See a Medical Doctor who will refer you to counselor. That way you will find one person to talk to who help you find out why you see yourself always bullied and are not strong enough to stand up for yourself.