My son's life is spirilling out of control. He is 35. Marriage broke up, smoking pot, doesn't get along with anyone. What can I do?

Tara2018-11-23T04:36:25Z

Only HE can straighten his life out when he gets ready to do you.
YOU - - can never agree with it - never accept it -- and don't enable him in any way by financial support.
Pray for him and turn it over to God.

Patricia2018-11-22T18:40:49Z

Nothing. He has to get it together.

You can let him know you're there if he needs someone to talk with. Otherwise, your hands are tied. We can't fix someone else.

If his marriage recently broke up, he's likely going through the process of grief and loss.... which can take a while

USAFisnumber12018-11-22T17:24:30Z

Tough love. Do not let him move back home, he needs to get his act together and straighten out.

MeMyself&I2018-11-22T17:21:06Z

He's your son u be there for him and do the best u can

Anonymous2018-11-22T16:40:00Z

He’s a grown *** man. Not your problem, it’s his. Some people never grow up. And don’t baby him because he’ll probably start to live with you again.

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