I can not understand what happened between us, can anyone help me understand? Answer and I'll answer 1 for you!?

Me and this girl predated for 5 months (she said she didn't want to date over the holidays b/c of how her last bf treated her over the holidays the year before). Some friend drama happened in our group and she ended up breaking up. When she broke up, she said she thought I liked her more than she liked me. Days later she said she was embarrassed by what she said because she said she did like me "A LOT". Days later I told her how I felt and she said she didn't feel the same way she did in November when our relationship was at its best. Last week (a month had passed) I told her I still liked her and still cared for her and asked how she felt. Her first words were "I don't know" and that she loves talking to me, spending time with me, likes me a lot, respects me, but that she needs to figure out who she is and that she doesn't want to lead me on and that it probably doesn't make sense that it doesn't make sense to her mom or friend. I don't understand b/c she tells me she likes me, that I treated her better than anyone else she's dated, and all of this good stuff, but she doesn't know how she feels and people closest around her don't understand it either? What do you think?

Pi2019-02-26T17:34:20Z

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You do not have to dislike people that you cannot, for practical reasons, establish and build relationships with. Particularly with people who are still trying to sort out their identity based on their feelings.

Let her go, and that means taking the path that many before you have taken with regards to this person plus there will be many more until she either realizes of sinks into dark obscurity with the wrong crowd.

It is not you job to tolerate such individuals but rather to understand them if you can and have time but realize that your life and what you are living for is of upmost importance.

Think ahead and play out the probabilities of such investments and do not be blinded by appearances lest you squander your soul for those who are not courageous enough to face TRUTH.

I wish you all the best.

Ace Shorty2019-02-26T17:22:48Z

Tell her you think you should have sex together before she makes up her mind. I hope you know how to make her have an orgasm if she says okay. It'd be a bummer if you come up short in the bed.

Charlie2019-02-26T17:22:25Z

Mate, I think she's confused about her feelings for you. You might want to give her some time to "figure out who she is." Best of luck!