Can you help me understand this? Answer and I'll answer 1 for you!!?

Me and this girl predated for 5 months (she said she didn't want to date over the holidays b/c of how her last bf treated her over the holidays the year before). Some friend drama happened in our group and she ended up breaking up. When she broke up, she said she thought I liked her more than she liked me. Days later she said she was embarrassed by what she said because she said she did like me "A LOT". Days later I told her how I felt and she said she didn't feel the same way she did in November. A few weeks ago (a month had passed) I told her I still liked and cared for her and asked how she felt. Her first words were "I don't know" and that she loves talking to me, spending time with me, likes me a lot, respects me, but that she needs to figure out who she is and that she doesn’t know if she can date anyone right now and that it probably doesn't make sense that it doesn't make sense to her mom or friend. Since then, we still snapchat, we went on a mission trip together and talked and were together for most of it, she asks about wanting to do group things with me involved, and people come tell me she thinks she flirts with me when we talk in person. What do you think do? I don't know about having this same conversation again if I'm reading things wrong, but I don't know how to act or what to think around her anymore.

Anonymous2019-03-19T21:03:21Z

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I think you should just let her be. It sounds to me like you're doing all the chasing and she may like it. Stop chasing her and let her do some of the work if it gets to that point. Sorry I don't have more advice.

g2019-03-19T21:23:51Z

Wth is "predated"?

ez2tock22019-03-19T20:53:18Z

I do not think you will ever understand. You have asked this question for 3 months now and still haven't learn anything.

The girl you are talking about is probably a great great great gramma by now and you are still scared.