How to flirt with girls?

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A VERY ATTRACTIVE girl I once met, said she only wanted to be friends... AND SHE WAS. She taught me this.

When you make LIFE all about you... Nobody cares. 
When you make Life about the people around you, 
everyone tends to enjoy your company. 

Anything and Everything you want to Change or Improve about 
yourself will require PRACTICE. 
There are many many things school taught you that you (most people) 
will NEVER use in real Life. You probably realize this by now. 
The solution to your problem/dilemma is simple. 
Depending on your personality, it may NOT be EASY,
but it's still Simple. 
BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!!
 
YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!! 

BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE 
both REQUIRE PRACTICE. 
PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better. 
(High School / College / New Town / New Job) 
Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or 
develop insecurities in themselves. 
This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention. 

The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE, 
is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company. 

Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people. 
USE SMILES (to make them relax), 
USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh), 
USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves 
when they are around you)
 
Wouldn't you want to be around someone 
that made you feel good about yourself? 

What someone else Wants Thinks or Feels IS NEVER your concern. 
If YOU like someone, YOUR HEART is what matters. 
Your ONLY job/goal is to get by her side. In her company. 
Once there, make her Smile, Laugh and Feel good about herself 
with Compliments. 
Wouldn’t you like being around someone that did that for you?? 

This is how you win over people. Be Likable and Be Fun. 
MAKE THIS YOUR PERSONALITY and people will look for/want
to be around you. 

All this may sound scary to you, 
but aren't you already scared anyway… 
And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are) 
CHANGE will Always be Uncomfortable… 
until it becomes the way you do things. 

Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better. 
DO NOT be afraid to Practice. 
Practice is just taking BABY STEPS, until it becomes Who You Are. 
Anyone who Rejects you is just PRACTICE. 
Anyone who Engages you is PROGRESS. 

Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For 
Will Probably Find You. 

If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls) in the future.
The Players call it "Having Game."

BUT YOU REALLY DO, HAVE TO DO THE WORK!! ...Show more

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Before you decide to go up to someone you need to make sure that, that person is in the mood to be approached. Normally people who are not interested or would not like to be disturbed often make a habit of signaling the same by their body language you just need to look for the signs.Remember here your goal is to start a simple conversation and maintain it for a while, thinking about anything further than that will make you to freeze up and you will miss your window. So to flirt with girls without being creepy you need to make it fun and not sensual.

The best way to approach is from the front making sure that you are visible to her when you are approaching and not to startle her by approaching from behind. Coming from the front and facing her head on can help avoid being creepy and make her less threaten as she knows where you are coming from.
Start off with a light conversation or a funny pickup line and once you get her attention then you can go for little bantering and flirting don’t go for the extreme ones just yet. Pickup lines must be funny and they work if they aren’t rude. Use a pickup line like “Your eyes are beautiful, compliments and confidence...
leaving when things are going really well means that she will remember you in a positive way and you’ll be the guy she had fun with and wished if she could again rather than the guy who bored her to death by hanging around all day and wouldn’t leave her alone. Finally you can ask her for her number.

And now finally you have her number and a date with her. Just try not to do a victory dance before you are out of sight....Show more