Looked through my boyfriends phone..How would you take these situations?

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After looking at the txt I discovered somethings I was bothered by and appreciated by.

1- him and his ex txted once while we were officially together. It was about a gym closing and nothing more. I was annoyed she was still there when hes told me the stuff shes done to him. He blocked her.

2- This girl who used to snapchat my bf whyle we were dating txted him asking if he had a girlfriend and he said yes. She clearly didn't care because she wanted to "shoot her shot" and have a date but, he said "my girl" makes me happy.

3- He loves to snapchat and senty some after shower snaps to this one girl. He doesn't send anything to revealing ever but its still the principal. She then had asked to come over and he always said "no its too late" but never said hey I have a girlfriend. But he has sent pics of us to her but she clearly didn't care. In the other txt I saw he said stuff like "drunk txting/calling again?, "somone at the airport looks like you" "im free next week maybe we can hang but I hate how pushy you are with the other stuff about cuddling and coming over"

That last one hurts but again he never said come over and has since blocked and we talked about this all weekend for better understanding and judgment on right and wrong.

Thoughts?

Pearl · Answer

i wouldnt be looking thru his phone and then you wouldnt be seeing all that stuff

Greg · Answer

Your boyfriend needs to get away from you, fast.

? · Answer

"and appreciated by". What does that mean? I have been speaking English for 55 years or so and have never heard that phrase before.

But to answer your question; Forget about it. You invaded his privacy by snooping in his phone. Not cool. Not cool at all.

Anonymous · Answer

My thoughts are that you had no business going through his phone and it serves you right to find stuff on there you don't like. What the f*ck is the deal with women going through their boyfriend's phones?

There isn't a damn thing on my husband's phone that I would be remotely interested in snooping through. I don't care who he texts, calls, or chats with on social media.

Looked through my boyfriends phone..How would you take these situations?

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