Anyone know a way that I can explain to my grandparents about the intimacy issues?

My relationship has everything me and my girlfriend could have accept intimacy.... guess the time gap since the last time me and her were able to, 3 or 4 months. We both are not trying to be relying on it,all we want is to be assured we are "allowed". As well as not be scorned by my grandparents.  
Get this me and my girlfriend tried after my grandparents were asleep and the next day my grandfather was like I didn't like what was going on you two were getting to heavy. (me and my girlfriend were just trying to watch videos and then try).

2019-12-11T17:55:23Z

Problem has now been fixed yay

Linda2019-12-11T16:47:29Z

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So your relationship has it all, except intimacy? So you both want and need a sexual relationship? Depending on your age and whether you live with them or seperate, it might make a big difference. Your grandparents may not feel it is acceptable if you are living in their home. I can understand why your grandfather said what he did. Your simple explanation of just watching videos and then try says it all. You were trying to have sex there with them present in the other room. There is nothing I can tell you except get a motel or go somewhere else for your needs. They are against it and they feel you are underage. So go elsewhere.

g2019-12-11T16:37:40Z

None of that is anyone's business but yours and your girlfriend's. Stop having sex in your grandparents home!

Alan H2019-12-11T16:18:32Z

If you were able to be heard, you were being discourteous