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Early in our relationship I had asked him about a girl name Christine who always snapchatted him. He said it was nothing to worry. So I didn't. Until I saw their txt and figured out she was a tinder match that he lied to me about and whom would occasionally hit him up. We had a big fight, he blocked her on snap and phone number. Last night she requested to follow him on Instagram and he accepted and followed back. I got really upset because clearly I don't want this person around as a threat and it seems like a careless act. He has blocked her there to and apologized all night. Am I overreacting or is this BS like I think it is?

Foofa · Answer

Of course you're overreacting but he's feeding your demons by continuing to interact with her. You can't keep someone by cloistering them away from reality. But when someone's made a promise and they go back on that you're within your rights to be upset. Not to flip out and try to control them, but to recognize that they may not be the "catch" you thought they were.

SeldomSeen · Answer

Well, you can't trust him. That's pretty clear. He lies. That's clear too. I don't think I could stay with someone under those circumstances.

Anonymous · Answer

Please say you aren't this dumb.  The man is a lying fool.   Clearly he doesn't respect you and if you take this BS from him, what does that say about you?  Have some self respect, tell him goodbye and end the game playing.

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