who's in the wrong?

16 year old girl who never goes out is going on vacation with aunt. dad gives girl 50$ to spend on vacation. once on vacation aunt and girl go shopping. girl has already spent 35$ while there, and they arrive at a store and girl sees a pair of 8.99 sunglasses she loves but also wants to buy her dad a hat which also cost 8.99, but she doesn't have enough money for both. aunt tells her to put back the shades but she says she wants to buy the shades and get her dad something from the "everything 1.99" store. aunt gets very mad, but they go to the discount store. she then sees a shirt she thinks her dad will love for 2$ and the aunt goes off yelling saying how ugly and gross the shirt is, and how the dad won't like it. aunt storms out of store and girl begins to cry at the cash register. the next morning girl asks nicely for aunt to aplogize but she refuses and calls the girl selfish, who's in the wrong?

Ender7722020-03-16T20:38:03Z

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A girl was sent on vacation with only $50..But who is at fault you say? Both. equally...The girl is selfish because she spent $48 on herself and $2 on her father...And the aunt is a bully..trying to force another person to spend their money, the way they think they should spend it...and then getting mad about it...big no no.

blank2020-03-16T20:30:38Z

IMO the aunty.   Way  over the top negative reaction (unless there is another side to this story).   

Neice was very creative in finding a way to make the most of her last $15 in spending money.   All it cost the aunty was a little time and a drive to the $1.99 store.

Not like the girl asked for aunty to give her $3.00 (plus taxes) she would have needed at the first store (hat and sunglasses).    Even THAT should not have been a crisis for aunty:  cover the girl for now and get paid back.