Brother more successful than me? Bastard ?

I went to college and got a masters degree. My brother only graduated high school but his personality, humor, and kindness made him a top sales producer. So many girls wanted to be with him because he is funny and fun. I envy he earns more 3x than me over being funny and outgoing? Should I be mad?

Anonymous2020-07-17T10:45:37Z

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Everyone will always be "more successful" than you so long as the sole criterion you use to measure success is education - a piece of paper.  Maybe you could look to what use are you putting your M.A. to?  Why not work on becoming more out-going & on developing some humour?  Kindness is simply application of the golden rule.  The real reason  you envy him so is because you're intellectually lazy, maybe  even stupid.  Being upset (to be "mad" is to be psychologically deranged) is of no value unless you turn it inwardly to yourself & make the necessary improvements.    

?2020-07-17T08:07:18Z

It’s sad that you paid so much money for a college education, when clearly college doesn’t teach people the first thing about being successful.

I mean, look at your question. You sound like a typical communist. You’re mad that somebody else is more successful than you, and instead of wanting to replicate the behavior and become better yourself, instead you want to tear your brother down and blame him for your own failures. Isn’t this obviously the mentality of a loser? Nobody with a successful mindset would even think this way 

Anonymous2020-07-17T08:04:08Z

Do a Cain on him, it is the obvious solution...