Nobody admires me?

m 40 years old and work at a grocery store. My brother is 26 and is a civil engineer, we were given the same life. However, he made some better decisions than me. He gets a lot of respect from children and from far away family. Our nephews always ask him for letters of recommendations and advice and never me? Why? Why does this society work this way? I try giving me nephew a few hundred dollars and I still did not earn his respec

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