Someone I don't know wants to meet me in at their house?

I joined a date site a little while back. I really want to meet people but now men are using the excuse of Covid-19 and don't want to risk catching it so they are telling me I need to come over to their house. The problem is that I don't know them so it's not safe they become kind of agitated with me when I say I'd rather meet in a public place for the first date. Why do men not understand this?

Foofa2020-10-12T16:49:45Z

Anyone who won't meet in a public place is up to no good, especially if they get agitated about your refusal to go to a stranger's home. It's a fact that they're more likely to catch COVID by inviting a stranger over than by meeting a stranger outdoors in the fresh air. Offer new dates a walk in the park and if they insist on their place you'll know to block them. 

L2020-10-11T20:01:34Z

If a man feels this way - then he's NOT the right one for you.  It is extremely safe to go out into public now.  Let the snowflakes stay home and keep looking.

R.j.2020-10-09T16:34:26Z

We men do understand it. He should not of ask you to meet at his place, you do not know what he will do. a public place or nothing, i am single, i would like to meet you someday, if we can get to know each other? My email is rw.joseph@yahoo.com. Hope to hear from you

Alan H2020-10-08T19:57:50Z

Reject any who will not meet up in a public place.
Best of all, try real life instead of dating sites

jimanddottaylor2020-10-08T18:52:06Z

So the spider said to the fly, "It is too dangerous to meet in public.  You need to come over to my web.  You can trust me and I might become agitated if you don't do it now.  Come see me Little Fly"

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