How do i ask a girl out who i have not seen in a few years?

So when i was in college specifically around 4 years ago there was a girl who i use to get along with i college and even went out with her 2 times...and we use to get along fine...then i got a job she got a job never had classes the same day became busy with school work and we eventually stopped talking.....i have her on facebook she is not in a relationship from what i can see shea single....so in may of this year i sent her a text asking hows shes been and she replied to me i then sent a second text to continue conversating but its been 5 months and no response....i have not tried texting her again...so should i give it another try....one of my friend says to look for some new interest my other friend says to try again to confirm whether she wants to or not reconnect since some people send maybe 2 or three texts if ignored and that usually works if im ignored after that move on...should i try again

T J2020-10-25T14:35:32Z

Id try one more time. But no more than the one more time. She may be seeing someone, or has lost interest in you. Nothing lost if you try, then move on if it does not work out.

Edwena2020-10-25T14:04:19Z

You have to be more alpha to be successful.  It is your life.  Live it as you choose, not on the basis of some mysterious protocol.  If you want to talk to her, talk to her.   It is nobody's business except yours and hers.  You have to be man enough to have a life for her to want to be part of it.