He only has me on fb. But it’s weird that he only posted me one time on his Instagram story only. I want to ask him why but I’m sure he will tell me I’m immature or jealous. We’ve been together 5 months. I know social media is not that important but still should I be worried? How can I ask him without sounding insecure?
Cumder
Tell him how 2 + 2 = 4 but 4 - 1 = 3 and 3 is not divisible by 2 and how that breaks the laws of physics. Then tell him, but he will be the one who is insecure because of knowing how to break physics.
Erin
Eh, I would not be very worried at all.
I know many couples where one is always on social media and the other does not even have a social media.
Its all about trust and these days trust is hard to find, and social media CAN BE a breeding ground for infidelity.
I would not care unless truthfully I notice him being secretive about what he is doing on the site, or hiding who he is talking to, hiding his phone activity when youre around.
Flint
Ask if you can follow him on Instagram. When you ask, don't sound angry or confrontational, just make it sound like a random question. If he has something to hide he'll get nervous and/or say no.