I dont understand ?
Ok so I got into a relationship of sorts with a guy that was going three a divorce. Long story short he had a lot on his mind, ex wife kids a business totally bogged down. Total roller coaster of a push pull relationship and it was just a mess but had so many good times. Always caused an issue when it got overly sexual. Never had sex but anything but happened. Hes PBD. Before Thanksgiving he gave me the I need space and time to deal with everything speech and he said it went take two years he just needs time. Said he'd communicate with me after Thanksgiving. It's almost Christmas. He wont talk to me, call or send back texts. The thing it I've begged him on multiple occasions to tell me to go away that it's over that he doesn't want me in his life. I have 2 work phones of his that he owns that hes paying for that I've begged him to take back. Hes still not taking them and hes still paying for them. I've seen him individually cut off service to other work phones, declare them lost and get new ones over the year we worked together. If hes so hell bent on not wanting me or wanting anything to do with me, and I've called them my last "connections" to him several times....why wont he deactivated the service? I know people that hes wanted to cut ties with before get blocked and deleted...hes not blocked me or cut service to his phones! I am at all loss because if you want someone out of your life so badly, why continue to pay for service for phones you owne that can't be used.
BPD, BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISSORDER AND SEVERE ALCOHOLIC
He does not respond to texts or calls. I just dont understand why he wont tell me to go away or cut service to phones be pays for.