Boyfriend got mad because we didn’t use my car to drive? ?

He came to pick me up. Told me if we could use my car I said yes. He lives 40 mins away. He called me saying he was close. He usually parks his truck and then comes to my car. Well I texted him saying to let me know when he was here so I could go out. He calls me mad asking if I still had to take out the car, I said yes but it won’t take long. He got mad and told me to just go in his truck. And then on the way to his house he told me that he has told me already. And that I wasn’t doing anything just sitting down and that I could of taken the car out earlier. I said so? I was watching tv for 30 mins. Why are you getting mad? You shouldn’t get mad. What do you think about the way he acted? 

T J2020-12-28T09:49:02Z

You need to make him your ex bf

I'm Mattman2020-12-28T05:53:15Z

I think he needs to work on his anger issues and learn not to get so upset about little things that don't actually matter all that much. If it wasn't going to take long anyway, then it's not a problem and nothing to freak out over. If you aren't in any sort of rush, taking an extra minute or two to do something isn't a big deal. He clearly has issues he needs to work on because he's going to drive you insanely miserable the rest of your lives if he doesn't. Good luck.

mandbturner36992020-12-28T05:43:13Z

Jenny, this is a red flag! He sounds like he would eventually like to totally control you and you don't need that in your life. He seems to have some serious personality issues and the older he gets, the worse he will become. Better you have a parting of the ways now as the longer you leave it, the harder it will be to make the break.
The issue here wasn't that you didn't take your car but rather that he was being forceful about your not having you car out in his timing. You need to do some serious soul searching about your relationship with him as his attitude is the real problem and not you not having the car out.