Should it bother me that my girlfriend sometimes posts immodest pictures of herself on social media?
I didn't like it or feel comfortable about her posting pictures of her bikini on social media and other guys are looking at it and making inappropriate comments on it. I did talk to her and told her I'm not cool with other guys doing that and I don't feel comfortable with these photos. She stopped and posted more modest pictures of herself.
I mean is this something you would be okay with your wife doing in marriage?.
?2021-01-19T00:53:04Z
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It's her body, her social media, her choice. You seem controlling.
If i didn't agree with my partner's behavior, i'd either work on accepting the behavior and just live with it, or i'd move on. I do not, and will never have a right to tell others what to do. This includes a partner.
Would it bother you if she went to the beach in her bikini? Or should she wear a niquab (burka) on that beach? She is proud of herself. Aren't you proud of her? We can't help the inappropriate comments but they are all saying that YOU are the lucky one to have her. Aren't you?
There is no "should" in this context. It bothered you. It would have bothered me as well, and most other people I know. Are you really questioning yourself to this degree?
It’s her body and she can do anything with it, whether flaunt it on social media, or at the beach .. people will look and comment, but as long as they‘re not touching her body, I don’t think thats problematic at all. You’re just an insecure boyfriend that’s why u try to control her .. in marriage it’s different, esp. when u have kids, then you may be allowed to have a talk with her