Why is this person being so disrespectful towards me?

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I'm on a date site, I'm a middle-aged woman really trying to find someone to date. I met someone last week who seemed nice so I gave him my phone number. He started off asking me questions about myself such as my favorite foods, etc. Towards the end of the conversation, he started asking me direct sexual questions about what I would do or not do. I was very surprised and told him to please not do that as I like to get to know a guy first. He said he is sorry but that he is attracted to me. Then we started talking again and he started saying lewd things again. Why would a person keep talking lewd when you clearly tell them that it's a turnoff? How can a guy be attracted to a woman he has never met before?

Believe In Yourself · Accepted Answer

He can be physically attracted to you at first sight. He is only looking to bang you. Like someone mentioned people going on dating sites only look for casual sex. Some guys are idiots and don't know when to stop when you tell them something. If you don't like it just block him. He will hopefully take the hint.

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder for ONS and hook up
So yeah he will keep lewd you because he wanna have sex with you

Foofa · Answer

There are dating sites that cater to quick hookup and focus a lot on sex and there are those that market themselves more as a place to facilitate relationships. It could just be that you're on a site known to be more one-night-stand than love-of-your-life.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of people use dating sites for casual sex, sounds like you’ve found one of them. Sorry but it doesn’t look like he’s interested in a relationship and just trying to sleep with you or get nudes.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't think he was trying to be disrespectful, he was obviously only looking for sex. You can be attracted to people you've never met before though, like sexual attraction is a thing.

Why is this person being so disrespectful towards me?

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