Need help I am so tired of this ?

I don’t even know what to do from this point I live with family friend everything was been so great with me her and her 2 boys I have been trying t to explain to her how i think of her kids like brothers and hope down the road they will think of me the same way but all she says is why does he have to look at you like a brother to have a relationship with you I have been trying for this type of brother relationship for 6 years and it hasn’t planned out since  I am super close with her oldest son and I can’t seem to get her to understand how I feel it’s like she doesn’t want me to have that type of relationship but won’t tell me it’s just hurting me inside don’t really know where to go from here if I should just delete them out of my life including there mom that is like a step mom to me or what 

Pearl2021-03-03T19:35:26Z

maybe you should move out

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Foofa2021-03-03T18:07:17Z

She clearly doesn't want that kind of relationship with you and your refusal to accept that is a clear sign of some major emotional problems. Try to get yourself into some counseling before you wear out your welcome in this person's home. 

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Anonymous2021-03-03T17:14:55Z

Ok, first, you've been asking about this nonstop, never thanking people for trying to help, or even liking the answers when they do.  This means you are probably an entitled person in real life.  It's an attitude you need to change.  It also probably has something to do with this question you keep asking.  Obviously, something went way south with your family & this isn't your fault.  But have you ever stopped to think how awesome it is that this lady took you in?  Most people would NEVER do this.  So start there.  As for the brother thing, I don't get why you're pushing it.  She doesn't owe you an explanation for her feelings.  Again, why so entitled?

When you say "delete them out of your life" because you're butthurt about something, well again...entitled.  She's been like a stepmom, yet after everything she's done, you'd repay her that way?  It sounds to me like you have a lot of anger over what's happened in your life and instead of getting some therapy to work through it, you're directing it at the one person who's been there for you.  Finally, it might have been useful to know your age.  That always helps.

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