How can a lady be married to her husband for 20 years and not consider the husband's family as her own family?

I know someone who's married to her husband and her parents are deceased but she has a brother and when you talk to her she says my family is dead My husband is not my blood neither is his family none of you are my blood none of your my family and I'm just confused at how she could say something like this? Or why?

2021-03-15T13:42:58Z

For more clarification when this person says my family is dead you guys are not my blood she means her parents passed away she still has a brother while he's not family to her I don't know but her main motive is none of your my family I don't regard you as such even though you've opened your hearts and your houses to me You don't matter including my hubby. Basically you're not my family because you're not blood Even though she has seen his family and been welcomed with open arms.

Foofa2021-03-17T16:52:21Z

Not everyone warms to the in-laws and different couples find their own comfort levels with extended family. 

idegia1012021-03-15T13:40:45Z

I'm commenting because I'm not able to respond to individual posts. not everyone loves their spouse and that's sad because if you don't love them why would you marry them? Also this person is my sister-in-law and her husband myself my fiance and her husband's mother have been nothing but loving and inviting towards her. The mother has invited her into her house watched her kids taken out the dog when she was on vacation and gone over to visit make special gluten-free foods for her if she can't eat what everyone else is eating has been nothing but warm and loving towards her and this is how everyone gets treated.

T J2021-03-13T02:45:01Z

Not every one loves their spouses family.  Mind your own business. I know in laws that fight like dogs and walk out of the home and never see each other again.

Anonymous2021-03-13T01:29:20Z

I've been married 15 years, and my husband's blood family is not my blood family.  Why do I say that?  Because we don't share a bloodline.

?2021-03-13T01:06:59Z

She only views relatives as blood related. 

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