Why is an affair anyones business but the ppl involved ?

When an affair is discovered how come outsiders like brothers n sisters of cheaters feel it's ok to judge?  Or neighbours or friends getting involved? Surely its between the 3or 4 ppl who are involved in triangle?-  not every dog on street.  What business is it of other people outside the immediate affected family?  For that matter what's it got to do with the kids of these people once those kids were brought up well what had their parents sex life got to do with them...thanks

2021-03-16T19:22:30Z

Unless it impacts ppl financially what gives them the right to weigh in?  What business Is it of general public 

i + i2021-03-16T21:51:44Z

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If you see a filthy drunk or drug addict 
stumbling around in the street, do you 
judge them? Same reason people judge 
you and your behavior. May not be any 
of their business, but they are still going 
to judge. 

Anonymous2021-03-17T03:35:24Z

Betrayal is very powerful force once unleashed.

y2021-03-16T19:17:29Z

It impacts the lives of everyone around them.  That is why people feel free to wiegh in.