Any tips for trying not to get pi$$ed off at my immature brother?
My 34-year-old brother has NEVER worked in his entire life, still lives with parents and siblings, causes all sorts of problems for family members and he breaks my expensive belongings whenever he gets angry at me.
Some things I had taken to account what he did to me:
1 - Property damage. He SMASHED an $80 bike tool of mine to pieces and left one of the $30+ bottles of solvent half-closed so all its contents had spilled into the container containing the other solvents and bike tools. He has no concept of money when it comes to the value of each item he has broken.
2 - Sleep deprivation. He would deliberately keep me awake at night to help him clean or to convey messages to the little sister to help clean. He also gets very angry if things do not go his way. He also wants me to stay awake up at night to make the correct water-to-bleach ratio.
3 - Defamation! I was blacklisted in error from ever attending programs for being made metrosexual because I missed out when parents took my sibs including him and because I posted lies about myself online to vent out my frustration for missing out. Blacklisting was placed in error and my eldest sibling took unfair advantage of it by getting the sister to go back to that place and confirm my lies are true. I was then seen as a contemptible person by metrosexuals ever since he did that.
I would feel less angry and frustrated if I know there are others here who know what he's like.
I live with parents and this immature brother. He is costing me money with his immature self.
At Anonymous 1: I do not get where you're coming from with that picture.