At Christmas how do you tell a 8 year old Santa is not real so I don't have to get more and more gifts for him every year?
My husband drinks and he can't help it as his father drank so it is not his fault. However, we just don't have the money anymore.
Our 12 year olds know about Santa but the 8 year old does not and has significant learning disabilities where he is delayed so could believe in Santa another 5 years before finding out if I do not tell him.