Guy needs a womans opinion:a guy at a bar told me something I'm unsure of?

He saw me reading a book and told me that being a nice guy will pay off in the end. you may not get girls now but later on they will be all over you. just wanting clarifcation. The bartenders are all female at the bar I go to and I am very nice to them. I help them take trash out ( a bag trashcan with 50 lbs of empty bottles are heavy.) They are nice to me and dont charge me for drinks most of the time. 

2021-03-29T00:48:45Z

the bar is a safe place for me. the owner likes me and wont put up with anyone's crap. its a small bar.

Foofa2021-03-30T01:05:22Z

This guy is circulating some textbook incel thinking of course. But is it a fact that most people in their early 20's have different standards for whom they'll date than people in their early 30's have for whom they'll marry. It isn't just women though as most young guys are also looking for wild sex and a pretty face rather than the hardworking partner who'll share the financial burden of raising children with them. Our priorities change as we mature.  

Anonymous2021-03-29T00:48:16Z

He meant that if you continue your pursuit in all things educational then you will make a good revenue/income and women will be all over you for that. But forget that. They will only love you for your money. Be the badass that the girls want because even if it means you have to destroy them and break their heart at least they liked you and not your money

?2021-03-28T23:40:10Z

You read books at a bar? Lol