Guy needs a womans opinion:a guy at a bar told me something I'm unsure of?
He saw me reading a book and told me that being a nice guy will pay off in the end. you may not get girls now but later on they will be all over you. just wanting clarifcation. The bartenders are all female at the bar I go to and I am very nice to them. I help them take trash out ( a bag trashcan with 50 lbs of empty bottles are heavy.) They are nice to me and dont charge me for drinks most of the time.
the bar is a safe place for me. the owner likes me and wont put up with anyone's crap. its a small bar.