My ex girlfriend now likes women? I feel in a way betrayed....is that bad?

Before my ex and i got together there was a girl who i was kind of talking to but she was Bi.....but i chose my ex over her....my ex would always be like it would suck if you had chosen her because she would of probably cheated on you with a girl....my ex would be against bi girls saying they follow a trend and would be against the idea of lesbians saying she does not get them....she would also playfully accuse me of being gay....i looked at her FB profile and she identifies as bi and is awlays putting lesbian posts and checking out girls as well....i feel betrayed in a way but i also feel she got some of her own medicine for talking so much chit about bi people and lesbians....is it wrong i feel betrayed in a way?

reme_12021-03-30T03:44:12Z

I'm sure all partners of people who finally discovered/admitted they were gay feel betrayed by their lovers leaving. We don't all figure out our feelings at the same time.  

Anonymous2021-03-29T21:04:58Z

It's not "wrong" that you feel betrayed, but it's unjustified. Your ex didn't choose her preferences, she didn't choose to be bisexual, she just denied it for a long time. You weren't betrayed in any way unless she cheated on you. Did she? 

P.S. Your grammar sucks badly. Are you a high school graduate?

liam2021-03-29T20:34:04Z

I'd probably start to **** over it then get soft thinking "Ahhh man could I have gotten a threesome out of it"