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Wife doesn’t accept gay son, what should I do?

My 11 year old son (who has always been pretty feminine, so I kind of suspect it) just came out as gay. We are Catholic, but my wife is much more religious then I am due to how she was raised. She has not taken it well and denies it and told him he’s too young to know. He also told us he is dating a friend of his (who we knew prior to this). I told him that while we love him no matter what. My wife is generally pretty liberal, but I think she’s panicking now that our son is gay. She has gay friends and is fine with them. He’s told me he’s not too upset over what she’s saying but I don’t know if he’s hiding his emotions.

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  • Audrey
    Lv 7
    59 mins ago

    Your ELEVEN year old son is DATING?

  • 3 hours ago

    There’s nothing you can really do. Perhaps have a talk to her, but whatever happens, make sure your son knows you support him. Without the support from his mother, he will need his other parent to be supportive of him. 

  • Shame the jew-infested media promotes such degeneracy to intentionally influence people into thinking they're "in" & "cool" for being 'lgbt', like everyone in the media celebrates..

    He possibly would have just developed into being a slightly more feminine but normal man otherwise, and you would not have wasted your time investment on a child which will not continue your bloodline.

    That may sound brutal but without considering 'feelings', that's how it is.

    Your wife is right to be disappointed & concerned that his young mind has been influenced by a highly degenerated culture.

    I'm not religious btw. I'm just a Fascist White Nationalist.

  • Anonymous
    6 hours ago

    Keep talking to him, make sure he knows you're behind him 100% and hopefully the wife comes around in time.

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  • Anonymous
    7 hours ago

    Gay thing is influenced by people the person associate with. There are studies that says level of hormones affected by people they come in contact with. Its true in animals too. Some can change sex due to environment factor and group. Take it slow and be patient with him. Let him decide what he want to be.

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