Hey guys. I'm asking mainly for the women but guys can answer too. I was supposed to get married last year but called it off because it was to stressful and want to try again this year. And ladies who have had a wedding want to share and advice, tips, recommendations? It can be anything. Feel free to volunteer to help me plan it in general please 🥺
Anonymous
I have a friend who went through something similar...she was going to have a pretty extravagant thing...but became too too stressed. She was 100% not enjoying anything...not even her fiancé! What she ended up doing was deciding to keep things really simple (which also saved more money for the honeymoon). After we decided to make things almost as basic as they can get she became happier and didn't worry as much! She just enjoyed all the joy and happy feelings of being engaged!
I know a lot of people are going to say don't make things simple go all out...its your one day....and while they are true hopefully this is your only time like this. Remember this: are you in it for the wedding or for the marriage? When my close friend started thinking about it, she realized she didn't need a big extravagant wedding because she was not in it for the wedding; she was in it for the marriage. The wedding is simply a celebration...who cares just party and enjoy it! Good luck and try to just enjoy it!
T J
Go to city hall and get married. No stress.