women only guy has a question?

My father says women are only interested in money and won't love you unless you have it. He's very alpha male type and uber macho. He says to find a girl you find attractive and basically say every sexually demeaning thing you can to them and start touching them. I want to be sweet and kind to them and do things for them and make them feel special and love them. I treat women with a lot of respect.I want a realtionship and not a one night stand. I want love and romance and sex but not just sex. He doesnt treat my mom well either he just sits on his *** and she does everything.He calls her stupid and crazy behind her back and it pisses me off. He tells me I am wrong for the way I want to treat a woman.his views have greatly affected my self worth and values and he ridicules me for them. Am i wrong for beleiving what I do, 

2021-03-31T01:35:13Z

im seeking answers not validation. and no more guys answering my questions please.

Anonymous2021-03-31T00:59:00Z

Rick, you post this kind of thing all the time. I mean, constantly. Your need for validation is NOT attractive. Just get out there, be yourself, and you'll eventually meet women who are interested in you, okay? Don't keep coming here asking for reinforcement or flattery. Seriously, dude, it's really lame and makes you come across as terribly insecure and ineffectual. Okay? Stop asking whether or not you're a good guy, and get out there and SHOW whether or not you're a good guy. Not trying to offend you, just give you some good advice.
That's bull and you know it. You're not seeking answers, you're looking for people to validate you by telling you what a good guy you are and how good your attitude is. I've seen it. Every post you make is essentially a list of your good qualities and then you ask people what they think of you. So far you haven't asked one honest question. Can you?

Anonymous2021-03-31T00:43:26Z

No your not wrong.Some women are like that but most aren't.It tends to happen more with older women that have been in a previous relationship.