A men needs to "persue" the women if he's interested in her, are the girls/women's saying. But what i don't understand is that if she is your priority she will think that you have no option and girls don't want a boy/men that has no options and is clingy.
I can say this , experienced:). If you treath her like a celebrity she will treath you like another fan...
Foofa
For some dating is a game and it's the thrill of chasing or being chased that they actually get off on. They care less about being in a relationship than about the build up to that. But people who really just want a partner usually skip all this to some degree. If you're interested in someone just ask. If they say yes then start dating them. If they say no then believe them, respect that and leave them alone. No pursuit necessary.