Do I owe my mother being discreet in the fact I'm transgender? ?

My mother is a narcissist. Living with her has been a difficult task since I came out in 2019 as she refuses to accept me as her son via using my correct pronouns, name, ect. She has recently said I should be discreet about who I am and continue dressing as a girl "because I don't want our house egged". Do I owe her staying in the closet and not being myself for the next year in the half to keep her life convenient? I feel like I'm unwelcome in my own home when I can't openly be myself. 

Anonymous2021-04-07T12:34:34Z

No just ask her to lend you one of her dresses.

Anonymous2021-04-07T12:01:23Z

If you are living on her dime she gets to have some input. Are you an adult or a minor? If you are an adult but living with her - in exchange for the free rent and board you get - I’d be closeted around the house but be out when outside the house. If you are on your own and paying your own bills then you can do what you want.