Sex question: Who should be taking the lead in bed the most?

share the role, 1 week your little red riding hood, next week you play the wolf. play nice and often.

Let the Woman take the lead. Sex is not all about pleasing yourself. It is supposed to be about the sharing and pleasing the other person. Let her take the ride of her life. There should be not control in the bedroom. It should be about mutual pleasure. Or at least that is the way I do it.

I think most guys like girls that take the lead and the other way around but ya everyone is different.

Everyone is different. I personally enjoy taking control but my boyfriend and I switch lead roles all the time to keep it interesting.

It's maining about your values. If he respects you he will give you the option. And don't be shy answer the question if it comes. You should feel comfortable. Sex should be taken seriously because your at risk if you know what i mean, "Da Sex Talk". And if you want to be incharge tell him "i got this". If not race for the top.(laughing) just kidding. But the first time is always the test. The test if he respected you or made you feel uncomfortable.

personally, you shouldn't be thinking about who takes lead more. Just do what feels right. It all depends on the couple and how they feel about this. It's something maybe you should talk about. Guys like having lead but they also like it when their girl takes control, its sexy to them. READ COSMOPOLITIAN, it will answer all your questions.

depends on the person. I like aggressive females because I am not. Aggressive females scare some guys..You kinda have to feel'em out so to speak. Give them the op to make a move, if they don't get up in his grill, if he still doesn't make a move throw him down and start tearing off clothes. he'll do one of two things, let you or run like hell!..lol

The lead role should be shared, Be spontaneous! Its fun to take over unexpectedly.

it depends on who likes to lead

your answer is both in relationship but if you want to be in charge then be in charge if you want to be controled then be controled but if want to have fun then play around.