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The guy I like probably knows it...?

I have a best friend who has a few classes with my crush. She tells me the conversations they have, and sometimes the stuff she says bugs me. Like she told him some of the nickames we call him. And when we have school events, she always forces me into talking to him. Like she once told him I had something to say to him, and I didn't know what to say, so I repeated something I had just said. And it really annoyed me! And so I find out that, yesterday, she was telling a really nice friend of hers (who I'd let her tell my secret to) that one of her friends likes the guy. The guy I like sits behind her in math, and he heard. He asked if it was a girl at a party she had, and she said maybe. Maybe is the word you use when you don't want to say yes, in those situations. All the girls at the party couldn't possibly have liked him, except for me.

So now I'm really mad at my friend, and I can't talk to my crush, because he will obviously know, and it'll just be embarrassing.

So what do I do?

Update:

It's not that I'm fighting with my friend OVER a boy. I'm fighting with my friend because she's been untrustworthy. I told her after she told the nicknames and told me him I had something to say that I didn't want her to act like that. And she didn't listen to me.

Update 2:

I don't want to leave her behind, we've been best friends for a long time. But I can't give her a taste of her own medicine, the guy she likes has known it for a long time. The guy she likes is friends with the guy I like, but they are different. I think if he knew, he'd act differently towards me than the guy my friend acts towards her.

And I don't want to give her a piece of her own medicine, though, because I don't want to do what she did to me, because it was horrible. I haven't actually TOLD her that I'm mad at her about it. I'm not as mad as I was before, because she told me he said "I want to know." during some class with her today, meaning he doesn't know.

Update 3:

Oh, and rkrell, I talk to him. I'm very surprised he doesn't know it's me yet. But I looked over his shoulder (standing very close to him), I've talked to him, I've laughed at his jokes. He once even asked me to marry him, but that was so he could get a fry from this guy...

But the point is, I do act like I'm interested, just not like my friend wants me to act.

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  • 2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't avoid him. Just talk to him. The worst he can do is say that he doesn't like you. Then you can move on to someone better who will treat you right. Don't fear rejection. You never know what will happen until you take that chance.

    Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    There's nothing to be embarrassed about, you never know something good might come out of it. Something good always comes out situations, it may take awhile, but it happens. As far as your friend goes, she shouldn't act like that, if it really bothers you and you have said something to her, and her actions continue, then she's not that good of a friend. True friends will respect your feelings. Just leave her behind, or give her a taste of her own medicine!

  • 4 years ago

    phat p*ssy - that p*ssy that were given some babyfat round it, oftentimes descends from havin phat bootys... compared to those skinny females with no longer something yet a hollow and a pelvis bone to tap antagonistic to. That gigglely stuff. The presented cushion for the pushin. The fattenin for further delight in. That plump p*ssy.

  • rkrell
    Lv 7
    2 decades ago

    You like the guy, and your hoping he likes you and your hoping something actually comes of all this. Quit being embarrassed and upset, and take control of the situation and talk to the guy. If you don't, he is eventually going to decide you must not like him and find some other girl.

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  • 2 decades ago

    Be a women and talk to him! What if he feels the same way as you? It will never hurt to try. Stop telling your friend about him. If it something you don't want shared, don't tell anyone!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Just talk to him and if he askes you if you like him just say yes don't EVER fight with your friends over a boy and maybe your friend did'nt mean to say it it justed slipped out

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    You shouldnt be mad at your friend cuz since he probly all ready knows then it'll be easier 4 u to tell him

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Well I know how you must feel. Well you basically have two choices. Talk to him or avoid him. You need to decide how much you like him. And about your friend. You need to confront her about it

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    i would avoid him 4 a while then talk 2 him.

  • 2 decades ago

    your friend probly does not realize shes bugging you so much, be honest and tell her that things like this make you uncomfortable, if shes a real friend she'll listen.

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