Just worndering if anyone out there??

It sounds like she has some relationship issues. She may be really jealous and takes it out on him, or she may not have ever had a really good relationship to model hers after. She may have come from an abusive relationship in the past, or even unknowingly been part of an abusive family, even if it didn't affect her directly. A little counceling can usually really help people understand why they do this type of thing.

I've met many women who are mean-spirited to their boyfriends. I think these women do not really want to be in the relationship, no matter how nice the guy is. The guy should get out of this abusive relationship.

mayb she has been hurt b4 by a guy that she treated so nicely-kind of trusted & all so this is her way of protecting herself against that.but then other people r just bully in a relationship. they just wanna boss their partners around like crazy.in that kind of relationship-if a guy/girl has any sense at all, he/she wil put his/her foot down & put the message across. after all its supposed to b a relationnship btwn 2 people-not one sided.

there really is no answer ive been in 3 serious relationships and was treated like crap all 3 times even though they claimed to love me. she's somewhat right she probably cant help it but she can change slowly jhe jus needs a push in the right direction and he needs to stick up for himself

She has issues.

Was she abused by someone and she is getting back at the only man she can control???

No, not everyones like that in the world. Some people make bad chooices.

that is controllable its just hard for her to admit... in domestic violence situation, she'd be the abusing spouse... she needs to go to counseling or just talk to anyone cuz the way she acts is in response to something that may have happened to her earlier in her life... just be careful cuz she can turn on you too.

people like this can only be abusers...

I think she takes her bf's patience for granted.

Since he's do into her, he wouldn't dare to split with her.

(Bad side of guessing)

Or maybe she just can't to truthful to herself and found that it's quite embarassing to show her passions to him?

(Movie way of guessing)

that to me screams commitment shy.. by not being nice to him and just being a ***** in general is like saying.. no I'm not letting you in.. if I am nice to you and let you in.. you can hurt me.

maybe her mom treated her dad bad and she thinks it is normal.