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Why am I unhappy with my boyfriend?

He is wonderful and we have fun but I just don't see him and me together in the future also now adays I am just not there in sprit just person but he hasn't changed since the beginning when I was really in love with him so I wonder why I am so unhappy and what I should do and I don't want to dump him I want to work in out but I don't know how to do it so if you want to help me please help me and don't be afraid to just lay it on me don't be all it's okay you will get through it I just want real advice that is to the point!

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Try talking to him about it. Maybe you just need a break from the relationship. He's a great guy but your needs may have changed.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Its hard, because people change, and somtimes you dont know it but you are that person. See compadability in a realtionship is REALLY important. And at this point it sounds like your personal preference has changed, or mauybe you are not as exited about him as you used to be. just tell him you want to take a break for a while and then think it over. And if you still feel like things just arent going to work out. and this relatioship isnt going anywhere then break it off, but still be as nice as possible as you can about it. Good luck.

  • 2 decades ago

    It seems to me like you know why you are unhappy w/your boyfriend. What do you plan on doing to work things out? Are things able to be worked out? Sometimes if there is a main problem, that problem will always be there. Be with someone who makes you happy. Ask yourself what you want out of a boyfriend/relationship? Are those needs being met? You need to take care of yourself. Don't be stuck in something that you don't want to be in. Just be honest with him and tell him exactly what you feel... do what you asked us to do... lay it all out on the line. You can still do that in a loving way. He deserves to know the truth and exactly how you feel just like you deserve to be happy. Hope this helps some.

    Source(s): me
  • 2 decades ago

    First, I'm sensing that there maybe someone else involved in this equation. The grass isn't always greener. To your credit, you've recognized the situation and it is best for you to be honest with you feelings and let him go. Tell him that things aren't working out for you the way you'd hoped and be upfront. Don't decide to hang on to the guy and cheat...invariably that will blow up in your face and will also leave much more hurt feelings.

    Be honest, let him down honestly and walk away. Honesty is always the best policy.

    Source(s): I wish the last person I was seeing had done that...
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  • Maybe you have just become to comfortable in the relationship. You should try doing something new with him, and if that doesn't work, tell him how you are feeling, you may be surprised to learn that he is feeling the same way. Maybe you just need to move on, or take it to the next level.

  • 2 decades ago

    I hear these people saying to talk to him. I'm sorry honey but that just isn't going to work.For one thing if you can't see him in your future(or growing old together) Then you should throw him back cuz your not only wasting your time but your wasting his. Let him go and move on that's the best advice I can give you.

  • 2 decades ago

    First of all, you should talk to him about this. Sometimes in a relationship, you just need to spice things up a bit. Maybe make some changes in the things you do, or try out some new things.

  • 2 decades ago

    Sometimes love does go away. If your feelings have changed than you need to tell him. It's the only fair thing to do. Especially if you don't want to hurt him. After youtell him tehn maybe it'll be easier to figue out why or what has made your feelings for him change.

  • 5 years ago

    it is often organic for somebody to take out any inner subjects out on those nearest to you. He probably feels gentle with you and regards his comments as justified means to vent. besides the indisputable fact that, there is yet another excuse this might ensue, that's the direct opposite, lack of self assurance. In the two of the two extremes a good answer for you would be to talk with him on the subject of the topics, show the seriousness of such comments, and perchance even help him get began along with his life. the sensation of failure many times will enhance as time is going on, extraordinarily if the affected individual is digressing in life. good success!

  • 2 decades ago

    MAYBE YOU HAVE JUST GROW IN DIFFRENT DIRECTIONS AND TRY TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE BUT IT'S UP TO YOU IF YOU THINK IT CAN GO FUTHER THAN STICK WITH IT FOR AWHILE BUT SOMETIMES CHANGE IS FOR THE BETTER AND MAYBE IT'S TIME TO CHANGE AND GO INTO DIFFRENT DIRECTIONS. TRY WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST IT'S UP TO YOU WHO YOU LIKE AND LOVE.

    ~ GOOD LUCK AND HOPE IT HELPS ~

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