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Help! My boyfriend ignores me.?

I have a boyfriend that doesnt do anything with me ever. We've been together for 2 years and the last year we do not do anything at all together. I ask if he wants to but he don't want to. He wont watch the kid while i go out myself. I work a lot (around children) and i want to have adult conversations. When i am home he is gone to his friends house's, while i sit there alone bored to death. What can i do to get him to take intrest in me agian. On a friendship level.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Aww... That is soo sad. If only you could just snap your fingers and make it all better... Honestly, I don't think that he has much interest in you anymore. He may think that spending quality time and communicating with you is no longer necessary. Most guys don't understand how to keep a woman happy. You should really try and talk to him about how you feel. But there is no guarantee that he will change. But don't think about breaking up with him until you have a talk with him first. After the two of you have a talk, and he doesn't change... move on. You deserve better, and you know it. However, keep the child in mind, whatever you do.

  • hans
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    2 decades ago

    What do you mean that he does not do anything with you ever?

    So where did the kid come from? Vending machine? :P

    Oh well back to the question. IMHO, I am sorry but I got to tell you first thing that he has lost interest in you. He probably haven't done anything worse (cheating etc) so right now you got to make a move!

    First find out what stirred up the love in the past. Pay attention to yourself and him. Is it because of physical or habit change? If you find it, do something with it. And also get some help from professional if possible. Don't wait until last moment, because you'll regret it for doing nothing. If all of those didn't work, find a better man. Most guys are bad but hey you might find a good one out there =)

  • 2 decades ago

    Well, if I were you here's what I'd do.

    I've been in this situation before (sorta..not so deep though with a child and everything.)

    But this will open a mans eyes almost EVERYTIME. You know the saying "you don't know what you have until you loose it" so show him what he has by letting him lose you for awhile and if things work out, go back and if not then move on. I know this is mean but be real nice before you leave and maybe cook him a nice dinner or something and then leave that way he's like "!! where's she goin'" he'll realize what a treasure he has and he'll beg you back.

    If you can handle it and it's convienant for you then take your child and pack your things (enough for a week or so, maybe longer) tell him your leaving..and move out.

    If he cares at all he'll ask you to stay but you can tell that he's lost interest in you if he pushes you to go ahead.

    My boyfriend of over a year helped me move out but afterwards was begging me back but I never went back because I knew it's not what I wanted. It's was a little hard at first but it makes it easier when you find someone else that is more interested in you and wants to spend time with you.

    Source(s): Listen to your heart, if you know it's not working and it's time to move on then do so because your only keeping yourself from a better life with someone else.
  • 2 decades ago

    it's obviously he doesn't want u, hes probably cheatin and he rather hang out with his boys than u. save ur self som dignity and break it off before he does. (singing TLC song)i dont want no scrubs. a scrub is a guy that cant get no luv from me. hangin on tha passenger side of his best friends ride, tryin 2 holla at me...

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  • 2 decades ago

    he is using you. You are a girlfriend to him, but he is not a boyfriend to you. Leave him, you will be better off.

    Just some advice you wont take, but will remember later.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Dump him, life is short. Be happy. Plan a date with another guy, when he ask, just say you never take me out, so I found someone else too.

  • 2 decades ago

    try talking to him seriously tell him one day when he wants to leave the house that you want to have a serious talk with him talking always helps so let him tell you wot his problem is then from there you can work it out.

  • 2 decades ago

    Wear ther sexest out fit you have, if he still egnors you get a new boy friend.

  • 2 decades ago

    If this guy does not respect you enough to be there when you need him to be then he does NOT deserve the same. Leave him now!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    I would get out while the gettings good.He obviously is not going to cahnge.

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