why do men make plans with you & never show up?

The "stereotypical" guy wants to "keep his basket full". That means that he wants options. I dont know your age but I'm guessing, school aged. If that is the case, the guy is probably a jerk that is out to get 1 thing, into your pants. He didnt show up because he found someone more likely to give it up. So he is no loss to you. Be happy that you didn't wast your time on him.

just plain old Afraid, they might not know what to talk about and that will scare them off unless his buddy tag alone to talk and make things fun.some men really don't know what to talk about on a date, so many want a woman that talks a lot.

You're dating dinks.. quit it!..I'd change your M.O. Go for a different type.. the one that catches your fancy now isn't working all that well.. If its just one guy.. toss him. But if its all the ones you are checking into its you. your picking them.. pick some thing different

Because its easier than saying no to your face.

because some guys are really selfish. if you hav one that pourposely didn't sho, then you should dump him.

some may change their minds or forget.