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i need relationship help?

there is this girl that i love!!! but we have known each other for years so if i ask her out and she says no it would be aqward i know she doesnt have a boy friend so what do i do???

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Go with your instincts. Life is too short to do nothing about this.

    Be brave, take a risk, what is the worst thing that could happen? I am sure you would be able to cope with it. Good Luck.

    Whatever the outcome it will only make you stronger!

  • 2 decades ago

    Girls like it when guys do sweet things for them. Next time you're at the mall, pick her up a little gift, nothing too expensive, just something she'll like (if you've known her for years like you say, you should know the kinds of things she likes) Girls love it when they know you think about them even when they're not around, and it will drop a little hint without giving too much away. See how she responds. Do little things here and there, open doors, tell her how pretty she looks. You'll know she's interested by the way she acts around you. If after that, she starts wearing perfume, or "grooms" herself when you're talking to her, i.e. running fingers through hair, adjusts shirt, juts chest a little, these are all subconscious hints that she probably likes you. Then finally just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, or go out on a picnic.

    When it comes time to tell her how you feel about her, make sure she knows that you want to remain friends no matter what, and even if she really doesn't feel the same, that's it's all right. Don't be too serious about it or tell her you're in love with her, that will probably freak her out, and be a bit overwhelming. If you do become bf and gf, you might want to still put of the love thing for a little while. It's scary when a guy tells you he loves you on the first date.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    If you want to find out if she likes you, one day at school take her aside. Make sure you guys are kinda alone but not too far away so it's not creepy. Ask her if she wants to kiss you. No matter what she says put your arms around her and start making out with her. After a few seconds put your hands on her bottom. It shows confidence and girls like that.

  • 2 decades ago

    The only way to find out and still remain friends.......is to talk to her about your feelings. You don't have to push your feelings on her..........just tell her sometime that you really like her and have for a long time. You were wondering if she might be interested in going on a date sometime. Reasure her, that if she says no, you will still want to be her friend, but..... you are hoping that she feels for you as you do for her.

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  • T
    Lv 5
    2 decades ago

    I married the guy I met when I was 8, we were next door neighbors...sometimes being with your best friend id the best thing in the world. Go for it.

  • 2 decades ago

    I would first make sure she like you like that.. MAybe having a dinner and a movie date as friends to see what kind of vibe there is.. Ask her if she could see you too on that kind of level

  • 2 decades ago

    first show to her that you have feelings for her that your feelings are more than just wanting to be friends.

    like tell her she looks nice or that you enjoy being around her and show it. and when the times rite that u 2 are close and comfortable enough. ask her with confidence and it should be a yes.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Just ask her out and if she says no just play it off and be like o i just wanted to c what you were going to say.

  • 2 decades ago

    u should just tell there is nothing wrong with taking a chance even if she says no u kan both still be friends right???

    Source(s): i need relationship help 2 one of my best guyfriends likes me n my x ignored me so he wouldnt hav 2 break up with me then he said he wasreally mad at me n we got in a fight n ended up bieng wat i guess u could call "friends"
  • 2 decades ago

    han out with her so she feels cozzy aroundher the ask her out! it's simple!

    Source(s): exsperience
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