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I NEED SOME ANSWERS!!! Can anyone help me?
I am 15 years old I had another question on the same subject a couple days ago. But I have this HUGE crush on a guy in one of my classes. I want to talk to him so badly but I get shy. What should I do? Oh he is on the baseball team too and he is really nice and yeah. But I just get so shy. What should I do?
16 Answers
- smokeyLv 52 decades agoFavorite Answer
Would it help if you had a friend with you to help encourage the conversation and avoid any awkward pauses.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
I haven't had the privilege of giving my little ones advise on dating but I do remember being 15. The best way to get a chance to talk is to be in a group of friends (hopefully you have the same ones) or group class assignment the extra friends gives mental support. Just remember keep your head in the books and not so much on the boys.
- originaltigger61Lv 62 decades ago
One idea is to put your thoughts and feelings down on paper and write him a letter. Tell him that you are shy and feel nervous saying how you feel. If he does like you, he will make the next move. If not, you tried. You may have better luck the next time or you may feel more confident. Another idea is to try speaking to a close friend, out loud, what you'd like to say to him...it may help you feel more comfortable saying it out loud. Or practice in the mirror. Don't feel bad that you are shy, there is nothing wrong with it....it is quite endearing. Good luck!
- 2 decades ago
Hey. just dont think about it. i used to be like that. and dont think about him being on tha baseball team. that doesnt mean anything he is still just a boy. just go up and talk to him. ask him a question about something in the class to break the ice if you need to. if he doesnt like you then im sorry but your 15 there is still plenty of time to meet your 1 true love. and just think if he turns out to be that person and you never talked to him how much youll regret it later. Good Luck
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- 2 decades ago
Maybe work on self confidence first. This way, you won't end up stuttering or tripping when you finally work up the courage, which would help with the whole first impression thingy, AND if he does reject you, you'll still be okay.
Ask your closest friends to help you. Maybe they can come up with a list of your best traits, critique you a little so you can check your worst ones, etc.
Other than that, don't rush anything. If it's worth doing, it's worth waiting for.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Well you just have to get up your nerve I guess. Try to do it when there is no one else around so it isn't too embarrassing.
Or you could send him a little note, not one that says something like "I like Y OU" but one saying "hi, lets talk sometime, OK?" and see if he says anything to you. If he doesn't after the note, forget about him. He is not interested.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Just be yourself ... seriously, then if he starts showing interest you'll know that he likes YOU. But on the subject of gaining his attention, just give him looks but look away when he looks at you, he'll most likely get curious and start talking to YOU!! :D xoxo goodluuuck!
- dreamsong67Lv 42 decades ago
All of these are good suggestions (except cheerleading - you don't want to commit to anything). slip a note in his locker asking if he would like to talk. and wait for a response. don't get goofy. Direct and to the point. "Hi John, I would like for us to be friends, would you like to talk? Jane."
Good Luck! I wish I was fifteen again.
- 2 decades ago
at 15 you should not be wasting your time with guys, at 20 you will probably get married, have kids blah blah blah...
Spend the next 5 years having a bit of fun...
- 2 decades ago
join to the cheerleader for his baseball team, it can help you to get closer to him. GOOD LUCK!