Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

when the love of your life breakes up with you and you feel as though your life as you know it to be has ended

When the love of your life breaks up with you and you feel like life is meaningless. Do you think that that person ever knows how much they have hurt you. How hard it will be for you to put your life back together? Do they ever even have a clue to how you feel when they just simply moved on with someone else making you feel like the love they had for was never as real as you thought it was.

19 Answers

Relevance
  • 2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    That's why I sat my Ex down and told him just how bad he made me feel. After that I felt 1000 times better.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Your relationship with him may be over,but there are more fish in the sea.If you want to tell him how much he hurt you go a head.write a letter or talk to him or get some counceling or therapy to get you through this.call up a friend to talk it out with them.do whatever you have to,to make you feel better and to help u move on.Your life is not meaningless and you can move on and live and function just fine without him.your heart may feel like its in a thousand pieces but eventally with some time it'll heal.time heals all wounds.even a broken heart,it just takes a while.you need to find some hobbies or things you enjoy and get out there and do them.don't let him take your joy with him.you will find happiness again,and you'll get through this.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    If they really cared, like you care they would not have break up with you! SO dont tell them again that you love them. Don't say you miss them. If they want you back let them make the moves first. But put it in your head that that person is gone! FOREVER! That's better to be want than to want! So get a make-over, buy some new cloth and start working-out. When you look and feel hot, people will want you!

    Source(s): Getting over the pain my-self!
  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    you want to truly verify out what is going on on your head and your heart or you'll go by many more durable circumstances. end the nonsense, you're literally not an fool! in case you and your boyfriend do not ever stay interior an similar city then how a lot of a courting did you quite have? How did you realize in case your boyfriend develop into messing round?

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 2 decades ago

    well yeah tell him get it out, it might make u feel better, i had an experience and i was really hurt, so i told him, but even if we didnt get back together, at least i did what i thought it was right, and i got it out, i think with time...ull meet someone better and ull learn to move on of course ull not forget but ull move on and ull realize that u deserve somebody much better. and he might also come back to u begging u to get back together but then ull be with somebody else who'll know how to preserve u. so have some ice cream, cry for a week or two, talk to ur friends, and then get ready to move on!!! good luck

  • 2 decades ago

    girl... all i gotta say is hang on. everything will be ok, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. i've been there, and it's almost two years later and it still hurts a little bit, but i realized it had nothing to do with me. and i'm sure it has nothing to do with the person you are either. guys know they hurt the girl, but they're often just not mature enough to handle a real relationship.

    Source(s): personal experience
  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Did you ever think, maby they feel the same way? if you are really hurt, talk to them, and if they care they will listen. Alot of people have gone what you are going through, I know I have. The only way to get over it is to do what feels right, if you feel like talking to them, talk to them, if you want to talk to a friend, talk to a friend. I think you get my jist. Just take some time to cool down and think logically, dont do anything that would make you or your ex uncomfotable.

  • 2 decades ago

    Well, for starters, never put yur whole meaning of existance into a bf or gf. Find God. He will give meaning and purpose for yur life. Then, look for a bf. He will be a better man to you. And if yur patient and trust in God, you will meet the right person God has made just for you! Be strong, it will come when the time is right!

  • 2 decades ago

    i went throught his not to long ago...i felt like that

    for a VERY long time

    you just have to realize how they feel and its not the same feelings as yours...go out with your friends its gonna be really really hard to forget about them but your gonna have to move on with your life...but dont look at things that will remind you of him and whatever you do dont talk to him cause it will only make things worse...soon enought you will find another to take their place and you will realize that you were way to good for him and did not need him in your life...

    Source(s): myself a couple of months ago
  • 2 decades ago

    Life is NEVER meaningless! Time and YOURSELF are the two greatest healers! So THAT life has ended. TODAY, you begin a new one!.......HAPPIER......FUNNER.....surrounded by many good friends! It doesnt matter what that other person if feeling or thinking. ONLY YOU matter today!

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.