Is it fair for the woman I truly love and taught how to love to give her love to someone else?

Love is patient; love is kind

and envies no one.

Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;

never selfish, not quick to take offense.

There is nothing love cannot face;

there is no limit to its faith,

its hope, and endurance.

In a word, there are three things

that last forever: faith, hope, and love;

but the greatest of them all is love.

I use that verse as a guidline, it works for anyone, no matter what your religious beliefs or sexual preferences are. You just have to see if what you had was really love and what your feeling now is really heartache or just selfishness.

Im sorry for your loss but there are plenty of people out there and if your bi, then theres even more!

Well, I can't give you any good philosophical reason behind this but I can say, "hang in there." I know that at first the pain of being left by someone you love is overwhelming, but eventually it will fade and into your life will come another beautiful person that may be the person you spend the rest of your life with...regardless of sex. I am with my best friend...we have a great relationship and that is what counts. As far as being fair?? Honey, nothing in life is ever fair...but what hurts you now will only make you stronger. Good luck, and keep your chin up and your eyes open for the one that will last!

Well, first of all... let me tell U, I'm sorry, no matter your bi and I'm not bi, I really understand U, that happened to me with a guy, he ran to another girl and left me just like that.

I know it really hurts when someone leaves U for someone else. I guess the point with your situation is not that she left U for a guy, I guess it's just that she left U, no matter who is now taking your place, the point is that someone else has taken your place and that's really painful.

I guess U just need to accept that the nature of love is that, we can love for some time a person, and one day find out that we love someone else.

It's unfair, U don't deserve it, but think about this:

Have U tried to be in her shoes? have U tried to think waht would U do in her situation?

There's another thing: Love cannot be forced, love comes and goes by itself, and I guess that when U love someone U just want the best for this person, and sometimes we're not the best or we're not the right ones for those we love, maybe U're just thinking about your feelings, I don't blame U for that, U're so human as a straight person, but, time can heal everything, and maybe U need to focus on something or someone else.

My advice is: try to think that this will be just past and maybe U're about to find another person to love and this person will love U back.

My best wishes for U...

I know how you feel and I know that it hurts, but to be honest with you she does have the right to love another. I think you should be thankful that she was woman enough to break it off with you and not be cheating right now. Also If you are truly in love with her you won't stop and you don't have to stop having love for her but you should want what is best for her and will make her happy. You don't have to agree with her decisions but if your feelings are as deep as you say then you should be able to be happy for her and cherish that you were the first to teach her to love and establish such good memories with her. All good things must come to an end and just hope that the universe will send you somebody who is willing to be with you and love you with all that you can give them. Best Wishes

Wouldn't it be nice if we could have a copyright on others? That way they could never leave us. But that's life. I'm sorry to hear about this, it sucks. This might be a silly question, but had you tried toys? There are some penis-like items out there that might suit her needs just as well. I don't know what to tell you, but going on what somebody else said, when life hands you lemons, find somebody with vodka and mix em and have a party! :)

Hang in there!

thats kind of what happened to me a few weeks ago... and to answer your question, yes, sadly it is possible. the best advice i can give you is to move on. i know it seems too hard but now that she loves someone else that loves her too, she's going to be happy and nothing would ever make her want to give that up. im sure thats how you felt about her but now she's thinking the same thing about someone else.

happiness can be found again. im posative that there is someone that is willing to give you the love you are looking for, someone will make sacrafices to be with you and make you happy again. theres someone that will do anything to make you happy again. and i wish you the best of luck to find that person and be happy again.

Why and how can u lay up and love what u r and have. Let's face it -that time of the month rolls around 4 all us girls. Pew-wee! Consider yourself blessed by the man above that she is gone!! Get it 2gether girlfriend! Get it 2gether!

did you love her or did you buy her?

No the feeling will never go away, but grow from the experience, try to find out what you did to contribute to the break up (it takes two to tango...and I am 43 years old and I just learned it...learn it early!) and try to move on with your life. don't let her destroy your happiness and hope that you have for the future!

I think you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Yes it is very hard to let go of someone whom you still love. Perhaps you can find a good counsellor to help you through these tough times. Hope you well.

It's not fair but its life and sometimes life serves us lemons. Only thing we can do is make lemonade