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For Married Women; Is it possible that a woman would have no sexual fantasies?

My wife and I have an awesome sex life. But when I ask her to tell me some of her fantasies she always (both times) has told me that she guesses that she doesn't have any. Is that possible? Do not all women fantasize about something sexually?

Update:

@sprocketmom: That is actually how I broke mine to her. She seems comfortable with hearing them. I have gone so far as to tell her that I would support her in any fantasies she might wish to fullfill but also to understand that like some of mine they may very well stay just fantasy.

Update 2:

@everyone who says I maybe her fantasy.

fantasy

n 1: imagination unrestricted by reality;

The reality behind us being together prevent me from being a fantasy of hers.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    heck yea its possible i was that way for a long time,lol,i just make up stuff or let people give me ideas,have yall ever been able to openly talk about sex ,swinging,or stuff of that nature,she might be worried about what you will think if she really tells you,like hanin a menage trois,2 male 1 female ,that was really hard for me to tell my husband ,because i thought he would think less of me.

  • 2 decades ago

    Maybe your wife has fantasies that she doesn't think you would agree with or even help her fulfill. When I got married I was so afraid to tell my husband that I was into BDSM, but I finally opened up and our sex life is better because of it.

  • 2 decades ago

    I usually just share some ideas with my husband, and he will either think I'm joking or love this to death! Being that it is hard to communicate without a voice, you should either fulfill your fantasy in your dreams, or in reality with a new chumb, mate, cat or dog. Its will always be fine if nobody knows, but everybody seec. Get ya swoll on!! Free and tasty? no.......phat, yuuuuuuuuup.

  • 2 decades ago

    I know I don't have them anymore, I have my fantasy, my husband, I just him need him near me and my fantasies come to life with him in our sex life because he is my fantasy so maybe you are your wife's fantasy

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  • 2 decades ago

    Maybe she is just shy about telling them to you. Get her to write different things down and you also write different things down put them in a box and reach in and grab one. Whatever you choose that is what you will do. Maybe this will break the ice for her.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    IMHO, a tremendous type of it has to do with commonly used ambivalent approach of the society as an finished even as it includes sex. sure, we had our "sexual revolution" and all that, and a tremendous type of factors that were seen taboo very few a lengthy time period in the past have become further and extra universal, however it type of feels to me that there continues to be a tremendous type of uncertainty re. how we are "meant" to experience about stuff that has to do with sex. We advance up with a tremendous type of assumptions that are under no circumstances puzzled; it truly is widespread to an volume - we are able to not question each and each and every component we see or hear - yet because of it, shall we carry a tremendous type of irrational beliefs that do not get up to logical exam. you isn't waiting to understand why women human beings are threatened by porn in case you look at it from a logical factor of view; you'll understand it extra constructive in case you spot it as an emotional reaction rooted in unquestioned assumptions which have under no circumstances been challenged. even as i develop into youthful, i quite did not understand how i develop into "meant" to experience about porn; i develop into raised with a imprecise concept that it develop into "undesirable", however it develop into under no circumstances defined to me why it develop into so. It purely develop into. yet once i began asking myself "why" it develop into undesirable, hunting for logical reason behind it, the parable has progressively fallen aside. i have come to experience that porn in and of itself isn't undesirable, and it serves a particular purpose; there's a time and an area for it, clone of there's a time and an area for each little thing else. it must be abused and mis-used, effectual; yet somewhat a lot each and everything has the aptitude to damage you if it truly is mis-used - even ingesting too a lot water can kill you. those days i do not have a difficulty with man or woman leisure taken carefully, I gladly partake in it myself even as the mood strikes. i do not experience it takes faraway from my courting, because the courting fills an completely diverse favor than a porn movie or a fantasy.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    maybe you have already fullfilled them all. Or quite possibly she just may not have them. I know i do tho.

  • 2 decades ago

    no, that is normal.

    not all women have a fantasy.. perahps she already has her fantasy.. you.

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