Why do I feel like I am obligated to commit to the girl after sex?

I wanted to answer this only because I appreciated the answer you gave my question.

So, no one has actually given you a real answer yet. Have you noticed?

You feel obligated to commit for one reason only: more sex.

Have you noticed almost all the answers you got came from girls, most of them not even mature enough to have any experience of a committed relationship.

Girls say they want a commitment usually AFTER SEX!

Why is that?

control of you, buddy. She has her own agenda, just like you, two human beings finding out what this part of life is like.

Don't know until you have the experience.

No one is wrong in this, she knew what she was getting into when she let you inside her. Otherwise all the responsibility is placed on your head.

Are you her parent? Are you responsible for her feelings?

My experience is that only I am responsible for my feelings. I am also responsible for my actions.

You sound like you want to be accountable for yourself, so is she willing to be accountable for her actions, too.

Both of you didn't communicate very well, and that's what people do. We get to learn how to do this stuff the hard way, by doing it. You always have a second chance you do the right thing.

Now, can you be honest with her about what YOU want?

Is she ready to truely commit?

What is it you want in a relationship?

Try writing this stuff down and ask the men you trust about how to know what is important to you.

Good job.

U used the wrong head to think with. If you care about her enough then commit; It will hurt her more if u stay with her for the wrong reasons. And next time u want to have sex with a woman, be honest about why u want to have sex with her and make sure she knows why too. This way she can make her own mind up on whether she want to have sex with u.

Why did you even have sex with her if you knew she didnt want to be hurt, and you are not ready to settle down. You need to think with your brain more than you think with your penis. If you dont want to commit to her dont, because you will end up hurting yourself, and her in the long run. She is better off without you anyway, because the only thing you wanted was sex. You are such a jerk.

Maybe you shouldn't have had sex with her until you were sure you wanted to commit...or unless you knew she didn't want to commit either. This is what you get for not communicating and for using people for your own bodily wants. However it turns out I hope you are more discriminating next time you decide who to sleep with.

dont let her mess u up;plus,dont mix pleasure with feeling;she makes u feel guilty;plus,everyone knows girls-except sluts-dont have sex until they are spiritually connected with the partener,aka she likes him a lot;now she wants to keep u...dont allow that;think of all the great sex ull be missing;or wont?its actually proven that dating guys have more sex than singles;u pick

commit as much as you can while still feeling secure about yourself, thats all you can do. thats alot of attachment to someone you have sex with. be good to her though, no one deserves that kind of pain. it sucks

if ya didn't want a commitment ya shouldn't have had sex.

You had sex, you've gotta keep her. It's my belief that if you have sex with someone, you're bound to them.

becuz sex is supposed to come AFTER committment. since you did it out of order, you're screwed.

if you like her, treat her well, you said shes sweet, so I reckon she deserves it!