How Many Kids is too many for your girlfriend to have?

That depends on what you're comfortable with. I would never date someone who had a kid myself. Also what kind of woman is she? Some women take advantage of guys and try to get them to support children that aren't even theirs. I'm not saying she's like that, but some of them are, especially if they're feeling overwhelmed. Also keep in mind if you get married and you go through the teen years with them they'll go through the oh so painful "you're not my daddy" phase. Just think carefully about what you're getting into.

1. If you say you want kids someday, it implies you don't want them now. Therefore, 1 is too many.

One, id never date someone who already had kids. i think it implies theyve been around and i dont like that. thats of my age of course. someone older whos been through a divorce or similar i could understand. but still wouldnt date ne one with kids already

That would be a personal choice. No one can answer the question for you.

if you love her it shoudnt matter