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What do I do if my ex wants to be apart of my life again after 5 1/2 years?

My ex lover have been calling me for about 2 weeks but I've been avoiding her calls. Finally I decide to answer her and we talk for about an half an hour. She was telling me that she still loves me even thought it's been 5 or so years since we had an relationship. I still care for her but only as a friend of my pass. My problem is that Im no longer in a relationship with anyone. My most recent lover broke up with me and it divelstated me but I'm begining to get over her. Now that my ex is trying to hook with me what should I do should I go for it or should I pass on her. I still love my ex very much but she has move on with her life and has a new lover whom she is very much in love with. I know now that we will never get back together because she made that clear. so what should I do?

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    she is in your past, leave her there !!, i talk from bitter experience

  • 2 decades ago

    that is a very hard question i have two responses. First there is this saying in spanish, "Donde ubo fuego cenisas quedan" this means that where ever there was fire ashes remain which to me means that maybe if you got back with your past lover love will reignate. On second hand you should give yourself time to think this through do you still have a great time w/ her?? How often is she on your mind??? Start as friends don't i repeat don't go right into the love relationship you had w/ her it migh not be worth it.

  • 2 decades ago

    Well girl you say you still love her so go for it just maybe this might work for you two this time. maybe the relationship you had with the other person was just a rebound until your true love come back in your life

  • 2 decades ago

    You can always say that you've moved on or your'e not interested you could always say that you already have a girl/boyfriend change your phone no email adress things like that

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